tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-41517438349201511812024-03-12T17:43:40.152-07:00Vickypedia @ LifeLife is a journey, there are full of thorns and roses. We never know what we will get or lose unless we keep moving on. Be grateful in life...C'est La VieLittle Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-89305205000390673632013-07-14T03:43:00.001-07:002013-07-14T03:46:43.487-07:00白天鹅的忧伤<br />
总于腾出时间观赏了“黑天鹅”;那么巧现居的珀斯也是以黑天鹅而著名的:)<br />
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“活得痛快一些”是戏里出现颇多的一句话;也是白天鹅面对最大的问题死结。<br />
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剧情很有意思,虽然说是探讨内心,但呈现的方式不至于深奥难懂,许多乖宝宝<br />
也面对这种自我突破的困境吧?只是,除非遇到形势所逼,一般人没有意识、也没有<br />
勇气去寻求突破。墨守成规因为令人觉得“安全”,所以宁愿就这样一成不变下去...<br />
对生命所导致的“损失”却可能是很巨大的。<br />
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“放松自己,随着感觉显现自我”也是一个很好的提示。为生活提起十二分精神打拼固然是必要的,问题长期紧绷的弦能撑得多久,总有断线的一天;倒不如学会放松,活出自己。<br />
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对自己说,切记,切记。<br />
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后记:<br />
戏中还有许多玩味的情节,如妈妈的角色,NINA时常搔破自己的皮肤...值得细细再思考。饰演过气芭蕾皇后的Beth没认出原来是Winona Ryder,曾经也是充满灵气的气质女星,受人追捧一如当今的Natalie Portman.真是人生如戏,真假难分。<br />
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<br />Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-33277310420264927392013-07-12T08:08:00.000-07:002013-07-12T08:08:42.155-07:00坚持21天<br />
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有人说,只要坚持21天,任何一个事项/动作都可以成为习惯。<br />
真的吗?那我要坚持写部落格。<br />
写到让它变成生活中的一个习惯为止。<br />
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我想坚持每天花些时间禅修,但是总是被睡魔俘虏;<br />
我想坚持每天睡前读一些书,总是累得打瞌睡;<br />
我想坚持每个星期做一小时的运动,总有更重要的事要做,或是一种借口?<br />
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所以,我选择以写布落客记录心情,即使不是每一天都记录,但是要坚持下去。<br />
坚持才能回顾自己的心情,才能看见自己成长的痕迹。<br />
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废置两年的部落格,是时候重新粉饰,重新开张了。<br />
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<br />Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-25619012535837615012011-04-21T22:32:00.000-07:002011-04-26T00:55:37.714-07:00橙色的小小喜悅<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhyALbnwxRbfFU6EewPt3Rcu6YoTw6LCqwcwiNEjzD2fno2D8We9Qth5mXFvqxAGs0CKtxs4BFJw3f10oNJlEDEphUU8wi_r9yGS13k71bpXeJztrJbaovlC-JKb6_MAXEUJ61pGP-IwBj/s1600/Orange+Flower.jpg"><img style="cursor: pointer; width: 156px; height: 208px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjhyALbnwxRbfFU6EewPt3Rcu6YoTw6LCqwcwiNEjzD2fno2D8We9Qth5mXFvqxAGs0CKtxs4BFJw3f10oNJlEDEphUU8wi_r9yGS13k71bpXeJztrJbaovlC-JKb6_MAXEUJ61pGP-IwBj/s320/Orange+Flower.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5599797721246893138" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br />2011年4月22日(星期五),晴</span><br /><br />今天是地球日。<br /><br />清晨准备上班前,倒没忘了瞄一瞄花园裡刚盛开的橙色鲜花;不知品种,应该是属于美人蕉的花种。很久没欣赏到家中“花”园裡有花枝绽放的景象,大部分都是绿色植物而已。<br /><br />橙色无名花卉真是生活中的小惊喜。一年多前在一个慈善活动买的,当时是一株不起眼的小植物。吸引我的只是它那淡黄色的大片叶子,加上整整齐齐的绿色细纹点缀,有点像男装衬衫,颇特别。我和外子都没意料到它会开花;种了将近二十个月,最近外子将它移到阳光比较可以照晒而又不必担心暴晒的位置,所以就有了开花的收穫。<br /><br />正如昨天在副刊见到的智慧专题:“拥有越少,就越自由”,看见过、映入脑海的就算拥有过。以我的经验,如此色彩灿烂多娇的鲜花,开花期是很短暂的。不下一个星期,可能就要面对枯萎的“残”况。<br /><br />杜秋娘说:“有花堪折直须折,莫待无花空折枝”;我现在是“有花堪赏直须赏,莫待无花空叹枝”,珍惜眼前美景,也珍惜地球上还仅存的美好资源。Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-445662702692810202010-09-21T10:18:00.000-07:002010-09-21T11:07:15.906-07:00月饼:一人有一个口味<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjfkEFsAWGp3tGYWWVqd23ienpyY7AH03tkv_j2miwzD8B9bVpwtE4dbH_Lska-iZpLmTxfRiZDICFvDtewn4gAbjlB0ehaG6I5G9tPuZnaR_zfP1ZrOLp0IZhMJAktGYNSKId-g_jxVJtK/s1600/Mooncake.jpg"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 290px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjfkEFsAWGp3tGYWWVqd23ienpyY7AH03tkv_j2miwzD8B9bVpwtE4dbH_Lska-iZpLmTxfRiZDICFvDtewn4gAbjlB0ehaG6I5G9tPuZnaR_zfP1ZrOLp0IZhMJAktGYNSKId-g_jxVJtK/s320/Mooncake.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5519429766651823202" /></a><br /><div><br /></div><b>2010年9月22日(中秋节)</b><div><br /></div><div>除了农历新年外,中秋是另一个欢庆温馨团圆,并会互相送礼的佳节。多年来,早已知道老爸最喜爱吃伍仁月饼,所以每一年买月饼时都少不了这口味。身边许多人都不爱伍仁月饼,因为觉得它太甜腻;但不知是否是遗传因子作祟,我和二妹也很喜欢伍仁月饼呢!</div><div><br /></div><div>今年,竟让我找到一种超好吃的伍仁月饼,味道香甜而不油腻,而且材料丰富,还包含肉干作佐料调味。这月饼不是来自什么名牌厂家,而是同事的妈妈亲手做的。虽然卖相不能与商业牌子相比,但是货真价实,不含过多的防腐剂,现做现吃更新鲜美味;所以我一连下了两回订单。</div><div><br /></div><div>不问不知,一问之下才知道,原来家人对于月饼各有所好:外子喜欢传统的蛋黄莲蓉、弟弟独爱黑豆沙、妈妈说刚生产后的小妹也可品尝她的最爱,即上海月饼;还有家公首选的是净莲蓉(不要参杂任何杏仁片)。至于本人,对于各种口味的月饼接受度还蛮高,除了以上提到的伍仁,也爱火腿(可惜今年市面上的选择不多)。至于其他各式的甜口味月饼也一样买账,但是若能加入单或双蛋黄,胃口会更好:)甜中带咸的搭配,口感更佳。记得小时候吃月饼时,还试过趁着大人不注意时,偷偷挖了蛋黄来吃!</div><div><br /></div><div>相信很多人都知道月饼并不是什么健康食品,但是其魅力还真无法挡;就连还在牙牙学语的小外甥也会天天嚷着要吃月饼!不知道,你最爱的月饼口味又是哪一种呢?</div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-38063123811667897722010-08-24T08:30:00.000-07:002010-08-24T09:15:14.134-07:00智慧的叮咛<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjtDYSGW4JJuQO5mzd4DUhbC61nfpH9YD6KAjLh_gynNOWhfVmdPOwLHO4Wr8BmUPK24tMAcB00w4KsOWVAfS47Ho9mup5QDR1Hln9w6BnNgHAgHsTJXeW5QK3HKUGGhwA1G6HbSVCMC7X/s1600/heart-in-hands.jpg"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 315px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjtDYSGW4JJuQO5mzd4DUhbC61nfpH9YD6KAjLh_gynNOWhfVmdPOwLHO4Wr8BmUPK24tMAcB00w4KsOWVAfS47Ho9mup5QDR1Hln9w6BnNgHAgHsTJXeW5QK3HKUGGhwA1G6HbSVCMC7X/s320/heart-in-hands.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5509009781863135042" /></a><br /><b>2010年8月24日 (星期二)</b><div><br /></div><div>有一位亲戚从加拿大回来探亲。这位早已过了古稀之年的长者,言谈间不忘分享人生的智慧,字字珠玑。她说:“天天我对、他人错,地狱就在眼前;天天别人对、我错,天堂在身旁”。是的,谦卑忏悔总是说来容易,做来难,尤其在今日这个趋向个人主义的现代社会。身边如果没有遇到一位能够提醒自己的“善知识”,很容易变得自大,而看不见自己的过错。</div><div><br /></div><div>战火自古以来都难以真正的平熄,就是因为双方站在“我对、你错”的对立局面。别说烽火连天的真实战场,所谓的“太平盛世”里也处处弥漫着小型的“伊拉克战争”。有的虽然无形,但杀伤力一样惊人。退一步,海阔天空,问世间谁人不曾犯错?更何况改变他人不如改变自己容易些。</div><div><br /></div><div>很喜欢长者所说的另一句话:“只要能令他人心生欢喜的话,不妨多说;只要会令人受伤(不开心)的话,一句也不要说”。口里常嚷要修四摄法(慈、悲、喜、舍),我想应该就是要从这个简单的理念做起吧?要“照顾”好自己的一颗心,一点也不容易,愿各位同修一起精进、加油!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-83083933558273097672010-08-21T04:30:00.000-07:002010-08-21T05:46:30.141-07:00“Kaya”酱<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiiL63FFNbP-9EkomUYv_CcnaRJoVbAUTDkR4iX5SsrYa2RHM9f43qoearfyG-CuKEMXE8t5e_Wp_K_LHcwmbAqF-upTpPLDeTVeCd7CVrXRuo2LLPGuqLEffCuHXohWTb3D8ktITNjwEwG/s1600/kaya.jpg"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiiL63FFNbP-9EkomUYv_CcnaRJoVbAUTDkR4iX5SsrYa2RHM9f43qoearfyG-CuKEMXE8t5e_Wp_K_LHcwmbAqF-upTpPLDeTVeCd7CVrXRuo2LLPGuqLEffCuHXohWTb3D8ktITNjwEwG/s320/kaya.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5507843512594621746" /></a><br /><div><br /></div><div>2010年8月21日 星期六</div><div><br /></div><div>“保鲜”这个概念越来越普及化,市面上几乎所有有限期的商品都被标上一个“保鲜”的截止日期,尤其是人们的食粮。无可否认,有了“保鲜”科技确实为现代人的生活带来不少方便。偶尔想要下厨的职业妇女更是深深体会。</div><div><br /></div><div>然而,在另一方面,所谓的“保鲜”也令许多记忆中的味道变质了。其中一个例子就是儿时爱吃的“kaya” 酱。不知从何时开始,我宁愿选择价钱较贵的芝士、花生酱、牛油等,也不愿购买市面上的“kaya” 酱;因为它已经悄悄从充满蛋香的原汁原味,“沦落”到一杯杯(市面现有的装载容量)由工厂复制的甜酱而已。</div><div><br /></div><div>还记得,儿时所吃的“kaya” 酱,不能久留,必需在三、五天内就吃完。当时经常是向踩着单车卖面包的印度大叔购买,包装是铝罐,而不是像今日的塑料杯。还有,为什么我只记得蛋香,因为那时候还不流行香草(pandan)味。我还喜欢吃一种自家炖制的“kaya” 酱,新鲜出炉时香喷喷的,令人垂涎三尺。最重要的是,它甜而不腻,原料也较为新鲜和健康,而且做法简单。</div><div><br /></div><div>看来,若要重温这种儿时的美味,就要找出相关的食谱,亲自炮制了。</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-19390144671828756942010-08-18T08:51:00.000-07:002010-08-18T09:55:41.327-07:00我爱卡通片<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKBA2joBsLbg7THSE1UbU9-mKpzjCSwQ4lw8AUK1S-B_Jv0OeU-dxaqMItSOVg8Q7KgB6ZN-bmKOCB-MyYicyU7O1e88YuBHwSZY5PpF-AtKa7SmWgSwBHTf7RVdqDCfuGMEfdmcN2FGbe/s1600/tom_and_jerry_picture1.jpg"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiKBA2joBsLbg7THSE1UbU9-mKpzjCSwQ4lw8AUK1S-B_Jv0OeU-dxaqMItSOVg8Q7KgB6ZN-bmKOCB-MyYicyU7O1e88YuBHwSZY5PpF-AtKa7SmWgSwBHTf7RVdqDCfuGMEfdmcN2FGbe/s320/tom_and_jerry_picture1.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5506788829789540434" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiDSSKvk1FUlHz2MC6C6oHaP9KXsukmobvSv3lSy4qLd0HJ23w88l1yBb_-GJXUTpk4tZfz6lsu-vmQPCq7edu1D5-Y-qYMmBvFJIck7Pyb4XkhmjnGex_-G09SCY4l3iqx-96FrMc6CCSG/s1600/Tom_and_Jerry,_Cartoons2.jpg"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiDSSKvk1FUlHz2MC6C6oHaP9KXsukmobvSv3lSy4qLd0HJ23w88l1yBb_-GJXUTpk4tZfz6lsu-vmQPCq7edu1D5-Y-qYMmBvFJIck7Pyb4XkhmjnGex_-G09SCY4l3iqx-96FrMc6CCSG/s320/Tom_and_Jerry,_Cartoons2.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5506788822225290690" /></a><br />2010年8月18日(星期三)<div><br /></div><div>几个月前转换了有线电视的一些频道选择,舍弃“发现频道”(Discovery)及历史频道,而取卡通频道。可能,外子与我都有些童心未泯吧!</div><div><br /></div><div>众多卡通“人”物当中,向来最喜欢的,首选是加菲猫,接下来是米老鼠...不过没想到,最近迷上的却是“Tom & Jerry”这对活宝。还记得,当初秀凤表姐为自己取了个洋名叫“Jericho”,原因就是拜这出卡通片所赐。我可是在十多年后的今天,才体会到Tom & Jerry的魅力非凡呢!</div><div><br /></div><div>一天忙碌过后,晚间其中一项很容易“消化”的娱乐(凡娱乐,都容易消化吧?)就是坐在电视机前看着Tom如何追打、欺负、暗算 Jerry,而超可爱的小老鼠又如何作出反击。虽然剧情与结局,有时显得不外如是,大同小异;但是两者间的互动就是那么生动有趣,看着、看着,不知不觉也会随着发出会心一笑。</div><div><br /></div><div>外子问我,你不是爱猫一族吗?干嘛老是偏心Jerry多一些?因为,我下意识里把牠当着了小猫咪啦!</div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-28646078354241848972010-08-16T16:09:00.000-07:002010-08-16T16:40:37.902-07:00黑暗中的一盏灯<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiE-mwmNpCoiYbTTZlOFR3AlV4lJg4zMNCVTbGYJTogXpIVWfIdoyb541DFUywuYSBqPFbi0G9GoQ6FP8D3Fw75Ecc6_Tt01i0JLMcxmCBXkd__0f7SqYrBVWTv5S6hWTTbovyQrowbLu9D/s1600/Teddy_Bear_Lamp_by_Suck_UK.jpg"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiE-mwmNpCoiYbTTZlOFR3AlV4lJg4zMNCVTbGYJTogXpIVWfIdoyb541DFUywuYSBqPFbi0G9GoQ6FP8D3Fw75Ecc6_Tt01i0JLMcxmCBXkd__0f7SqYrBVWTv5S6hWTTbovyQrowbLu9D/s320/Teddy_Bear_Lamp_by_Suck_UK.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5506156750438179010" /></a><br />2010年8月17日<div><br /></div><div>七夕节的夜晚,巧好碰到另一半不在身边。晚上入眠时,不习惯独自让黑暗包围的感觉,会害怕。亮着荧光灯又不利于睡眠。后来,灵光一现,亮起一盏晕黄色的桌灯,感觉就好多了;一夜安睡到天明。</div><div><br /></div><div>佛曲中经常歌颂“光”能驱赶无名,指引正确的方向。原来,“光”还能带来一份安全感。古时的原始人围在火堆旁睡觉,除了取暖,大概也是为了安全感吧(避免野兽的侵袭)。</div><div><br /></div><div>突然间,很想听到Belinda Carlisle 的Leave A Light On, 感觉蛮应景。<span class="Apple-style-span" style=" line-height: 15px; font-family:arial, sans-serif;font-size:small;"><button class="ws" title="" style="background-image: url(http://www.google.com.my/images/srpr/nav_logo14.png); background-attachment: initial; background-origin: initial; background-clip: initial; background-color: initial; border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-style: initial; border-color: initial; cursor: pointer; display: inline; margin-right: 3px; height: 14px; vertical-align: 0px; width: 14px; margin-left: 5px; opacity: 1; background-position: -117px -117px; background-repeat: no-repeat no-repeat; "></button></span></div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-85329248569976874292010-08-13T05:53:00.000-07:002010-08-13T06:14:56.934-07:00生活中的目标<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvHG4jTRSwjgeqmbdslpTS-jhT6ZQhfy7MBfSGCT7uSCUMZOSFigHcvikcfsxhmo2Ru9uQDVoiwQeIOXzrv32ksV0sFpOl3DFVp8byT1YsloD772MNRgAfIudeSf__tNq8qAMmpVLO-z4g/s1600/goal.gif"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvHG4jTRSwjgeqmbdslpTS-jhT6ZQhfy7MBfSGCT7uSCUMZOSFigHcvikcfsxhmo2Ru9uQDVoiwQeIOXzrv32ksV0sFpOl3DFVp8byT1YsloD772MNRgAfIudeSf__tNq8qAMmpVLO-z4g/s320/goal.gif" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5504882269389289026" /></a><br />2010年8月13日(星期五)<div><br /></div><div>又是另一个黑色星期五,但我相信最近有点郁闷的心情与这无关。今天,在面子书读到一个新朋友的呻吟,他说:又到了星期五,不是星期五不好,而是星期五一过,又来到了星期六、星期日、星期一:日复一日,好像都在不断的重复。</div><div><br /></div><div>自己看了也有些同感,虽然一星期中最喜欢星期五,但是星期五过后,日子又像流水般飞快地逝去。我想,终得为单调的日子来点刺激与变化。设个目标吧!短期的也好、简单的也好,总之是向上向善、能提升自己的就好。</div><div><br /></div><div>对了,这部落格不是强调学习的重要吗?我这么会忘了学习的乐趣呢?好,暂时就先定下一个“一星期一本书”的目标吧!有了“进”修,还要有个抒发的情感的管道才行;那就重拾这块“荒废”一时的部落格,也是时候重新耕耘了。</div><div><br /></div><div>当然,目标不管多大、多棒都没用;能否持之以恒才是关键,时间才能展示成果。</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-71158200382070735972009-11-12T20:21:00.000-08:002009-11-12T20:44:29.074-08:00对明天的期待<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgWnaA8AUG-P2OnbtCD5tpISZPyhfK8eviia35XLgVKIBMDYHzjS_G6lqsdKVcQbSK5NqRhRiPkDKiRllayGg0o1DjBVGYuov2UV4xxmjN1VITcycjlZ-qgJ_IQsLZaKLof-mlMBP1CsiYA/s1600-h/cherating_beach.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5403444298447505202" style="WIDTH: 200px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 172px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgWnaA8AUG-P2OnbtCD5tpISZPyhfK8eviia35XLgVKIBMDYHzjS_G6lqsdKVcQbSK5NqRhRiPkDKiRllayGg0o1DjBVGYuov2UV4xxmjN1VITcycjlZ-qgJ_IQsLZaKLof-mlMBP1CsiYA/s320/cherating_beach.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><strong></strong></div><br /><div><strong>2009年11月13日(星期五),阴天</strong></div><br /><div></div><br /><div>对明天有所期待,真的是明天11月14日,“明天”不是統指未來啦!</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>这个周末將與丈夫參加其公司舉辦的遮拉汀沙滩(Cherating Beach)之旅。提到遮拉汀令我想起了</div><br /><div>Club Med, 还有在里头工作的各国员工。如果家中有個20岁出头的孩子,不妨鼓励他/她去应征這類工作,何嘗不是一個很好的国际交流机会與体验。</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>虽然這次將入住的不是Club Med村,希望這趟旅游还是精彩的,最低限度不会破坏了之前关丹给予我的印象。还记得Teluk Cempedak那儿的沙滩的沙是非常的洁白幼细,许多地方的沙滩都比不上哦!</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>P/s:今天是黑色星期五(Friday 13),因该是灰色,因为天阴阴嘛!</div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-20995650760395169032009-11-11T19:32:00.000-08:002009-11-11T20:02:53.937-08:00早起的人儿<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjp8Ae_ikF8MPKgTp6ZzIscKbwz-YiR89dutXmht3NKi0t49uZjEtidhyphenhyphenDUlptgdW5uBwE4Dva9a6dRDAZAKdyTPg-IUL3eQ0LhStK8h5S48BTQnu9Yny-fRsuyop008qLnOeNgF_Z2kOc1/s1600-h/morning+dew1.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5403062168308603858" style="WIDTH: 310px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 216px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjp8Ae_ikF8MPKgTp6ZzIscKbwz-YiR89dutXmht3NKi0t49uZjEtidhyphenhyphenDUlptgdW5uBwE4Dva9a6dRDAZAKdyTPg-IUL3eQ0LhStK8h5S48BTQnu9Yny-fRsuyop008qLnOeNgF_Z2kOc1/s320/morning+dew1.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div></div><div><strong>2009年11月12日, 大太阳</strong></div><br /><div>今天一早就起床了,清晨五点正,真的破纪录。昨晚八点四十五分就寝也是破纪录呢!</div><br /><div>早起的感觉真好,可以为上早班制的丈夫准备早餐,还可以为母亲赶制首饰(之前已答应她,但一直没时间)。最重要的是早睡早起身体好:) ,只是不晓得这种好习惯能维持多少天?想来少点毅力与纪律也不行。</div><br /><div></div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-56489957543153523042009-11-10T23:31:00.000-08:002009-11-10T23:46:35.596-08:00開心就好<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNKcrgJxVL7lSI4HbWBxtvUtnwELGfk2siObkeohhR6retnhBLwISy_1imtLiVwqu6iKirAhzUjHGpuM0t3y481zAJJL19VSPCmymJWAced434xgi7YbUP6OcRV-JjGCExQhgnMvsQKnZn/s1600-h/mickey.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5402748702248275106" style="WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 318px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNKcrgJxVL7lSI4HbWBxtvUtnwELGfk2siObkeohhR6retnhBLwISy_1imtLiVwqu6iKirAhzUjHGpuM0t3y481zAJJL19VSPCmymJWAced434xgi7YbUP6OcRV-JjGCExQhgnMvsQKnZn/s320/mickey.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><strong></strong></div><div><strong>2009年11月10日,好天氣</strong></div><br /><div>今天下班后與昔日的舊同事有一場聚會,雖然好幾位同事臨時無法出席,但是能見到好久不見的同事還是開心。席間聽到Albert提到一句很受用的話,他說:工作無論遇到什么樣上司/老板,收到怎么樣的責罵,工作有多繁重(聘請你工作量肯定多),只要不會“氣結”就好。</div><br /><div>是的,生活中的多少事,都不應太執著。無論贊賞或責罵,對方往往事過境遷,忘得無影無蹤。如果本身將這些細節放大,或一直放不下苦的還是自己。工作嘛(生活的一大部分)<span style="color:#663333;"><strong>還是開心最重要!</strong></span></div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-34246241338563541862009-11-10T22:37:00.000-08:002009-11-10T23:30:30.957-08:00中毒<strong>2009年11月9日,黃昏雨</strong><br /><strong></strong><br />沒想過自己會中毒,中了電玩的毒。說的是,Play First的Cooking Dash (餐館經營游戲)。真的是欲罷不能,更不甘心為何Jason每一盤的分數都比我高?很想繼續挑戰Expert(高手)的階級,但是又得犧牲寶貴的睡眠了,看來明天會很累啦!Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-79043345027750550392009-11-10T20:34:00.000-08:002009-11-10T22:27:20.597-08:00最常做的事<strong>200911年8日,艷陽高照</strong><br /><strong></strong><br />當Nee Wern在今天的佛學班問起同學們:你知道自己每天最常做的是什么事嗎?學生的回答有:看電視、念書、打電玩,結果他的答案是:埋怨!有點出乎意料,卻是非常的一針見血。生活中真的聽到他人的埋怨,有的非常嚴重,有的卻非常瑣碎(但是瑣碎與否,只有當事人的感受最清楚)。有時在想,埋怨算是一種緒的垃圾,有的人一定要發泄才算“丟”掉垃圾。不過要是能自行在內心“焚化”垃圾會更好;若如能自在的處理不讓它演變成垃圾則更棒了。<br /><br />一天假設有十個埋怨,明天刪減至九個,后天八個,再后天七個,這就是<span style="color:#003300;"><strong>進步</strong></span><span style="color:#000000;"><strong>!</strong>減少埋怨,心更輕盈、生活也更寫意了。</span><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><strong></strong><br /><strong></strong>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-61880517460577804522009-11-10T19:02:00.000-08:002009-11-10T20:34:13.911-08:00兩個可愛的天使<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZpOuyNgjzXPyr59-cIdIGmgM4zWELUjffWy9FKwtHdTKHUitnOZKFcC7V-fdKa_NwLQD7FdOb0gCYD_AOWebsspO6-azTs74UrmtiRKGuwjuNmn1EHKAV1zxd-swZ5R_pUmsaMewWALg6/s1600-h/è­äºº.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5402698907659448338" style="WIDTH: 214px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZpOuyNgjzXPyr59-cIdIGmgM4zWELUjffWy9FKwtHdTKHUitnOZKFcC7V-fdKa_NwLQD7FdOb0gCYD_AOWebsspO6-azTs74UrmtiRKGuwjuNmn1EHKAV1zxd-swZ5R_pUmsaMewWALg6/s320/%E8%AD%89%E4%BA%BA.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><strong>200911月7日,炎熱</strong></div><br /><div>小孩很可愛,尤其是長得很漂亮又有演戲細胞的雙胞胎。說的是在“證人”里頭占戲頗重的兩名姐妹花-黃雪姘與黃心姘。證人這部戲充滿陰天的感覺,令人覺得難以呼吸。可是小童星的出現卻讓氣氛變得不一樣了;尤其是飾演妹妹的那位,時而天真,時而神情堅毅,表演緊扣人心。搶鏡度一點也不比謝霆鋒及張家輝遜色。</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>觀賞到妹妹被建筑工地的沙堆掩埋時,真有于心不忍的感覺,深怕壓壞了瓷器般的漂亮娃兒(其父母還真放心讓孩子接演這一幕啊)。說到瓷器般的美麗,女主角張靜初也是屬于這一類型美女,雖然演的是法律界的女強人,但是也太秀氣了。不過這樣一來,倒增加了飾演兩母女的說服力(氣質相近嘛)。</div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-1746534878574481562009-11-07T08:16:00.000-08:002009-11-07T08:58:33.586-08:00感谢天,又到星期五!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhoE9e8002PCMAMNBd40MlQp1TkQFbbMEkArcg1MRZ32cPy_3MAcPCguBdMHqJbUs_xzPcQ9b-aODFz9hBV1k63xtTE3929v9fq5-X3Vb1cfqJxlB9NWYDlMITUhbHm3mczS0mw4YwTmW2n/s1600-h/fridays+(1).jpg"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhoE9e8002PCMAMNBd40MlQp1TkQFbbMEkArcg1MRZ32cPy_3MAcPCguBdMHqJbUs_xzPcQ9b-aODFz9hBV1k63xtTE3929v9fq5-X3Vb1cfqJxlB9NWYDlMITUhbHm3mczS0mw4YwTmW2n/s320/fridays+(1).jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5401406610502985202" /></a><br /><div><b>2009年11月6日,细雨</b></div><div><br /></div><div>一、二、三、四、五、六、日,我最爱的是星期五。</div><div><br /></div><div>自从转了现在这份五日制的工作,更喜欢星期五了。几乎每一个周末都是一个美好的breakaway;如果不是到外地的周末之旅,就是出席宴会、集餐、演唱会等活动。再不然就是与丈夫齐齐当个宅男宅女,好好在家休息。周末还有一项开心的事:当钟点女佣打扫完毕后,心情就更加愉快了!</div><div><br /></div><div>周末的短短假期总是飞逝得特别快;每个星期六起身后,“与时间赛跑”就开始了。然后一眨眼又到了星期日的夜晚,接着就是蓝色星期一。所以,星期五的夜晚是我觉得最relax的时间,你的情况是否也正是如此呢?</div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-35510713095187050882009-11-05T19:06:00.000-08:002009-11-05T20:11:37.073-08:00光陰Vs休息<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2DtHk4RNkWmQ2TL0rc3yALHHE_itx5iLP7-8QUBzcUVqBFiTxr_ZZXfxMd6xRVldR5q_YijhFDCJYtCYbMN2SHvnM8rG93TluE66LN2f6yGfrbSEvKi3Nsa7_aXXrPXlU_sIuXbTjcyMO/s1600-h/palms-clock.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5400838016684112242" style="WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg2DtHk4RNkWmQ2TL0rc3yALHHE_itx5iLP7-8QUBzcUVqBFiTxr_ZZXfxMd6xRVldR5q_YijhFDCJYtCYbMN2SHvnM8rG93TluE66LN2f6yGfrbSEvKi3Nsa7_aXXrPXlU_sIuXbTjcyMO/s320/palms-clock.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><div>2009年11月5日, 傍晚雨后清涼</div><br /><div>古人說:“一寸光陰一寸金、寸金難買寸光陰”。年紀愈大,愈認同這句智慧的名言。試想想,金錢失去了,可以再努力獲取,光陰不見了,真的無處去追尋。</div><br /><div>其實,光陰與金錢也有許多有趣的互動關系。比如說,有的人是以光陰獲取金錢(打工一族),有的人則以金錢換取光陰(找傭人或機器代勞做家務)。現代人越來越講究生活的質素,所以花錢請人代勞省時間的個案,多不勝數。再后來的后來,有人開始問:省下來的時間要怎么用呢?如果只是吃喝玩樂、發呆與睡覺,勞動一番對身體的健康不是更好嗎?我想,省下的光陰做些什么已不是重點,重點是從繁忙的工作中,獲得休息。不是說,休息是為了走更長遠的路嗎?</div></div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-66437948891528191812009-11-04T18:49:00.000-08:002009-11-04T19:06:19.842-08:00玫瑰或是荊棘?<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXz30Oc9BD3HSPyOd9qPyTYqcAmn1fGnZLbFgVM4PUopVA1t_sMittafthm8XcRQPYRkFfrTAunGSeAcf-qp-yyz_R9HM155LuE0sH7-ff6F_juKGuj9xFpy62zB2_Lu3rp-xuc5rR2mwT/s1600-h/42822_PIANO_ROSE_BOUQUET.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5400450185040183154" style="WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 211px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXz30Oc9BD3HSPyOd9qPyTYqcAmn1fGnZLbFgVM4PUopVA1t_sMittafthm8XcRQPYRkFfrTAunGSeAcf-qp-yyz_R9HM155LuE0sH7-ff6F_juKGuj9xFpy62zB2_Lu3rp-xuc5rR2mwT/s320/42822_PIANO_ROSE_BOUQUET.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div></div><div>2009年11月4日,雨</div><br /><div></div><div>生活是滿園玫瑰或是荊棘沿途?</div><br /><div></div><div>今晚在Mudita Klang分享的就是有關這項課題的一點看法。佛法說,生活既不純然是玫瑰(快樂)也不盡然是荊棘(悲傷),要如實觀。玫瑰不會因為有刺,而變得不美麗;荊刺也不會因為玫瑰而變得突然可愛起來。兩者性質截然不同,卻長在同一體;生活也是如此,總是有苦有樂,這一分鐘不知道下一分鐘將發生的事。不管是苦或樂,實實在在活在當下,學會品嘗生活滋味最重要!</div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-27118469204281722732009-11-03T19:27:00.000-08:002009-11-03T20:30:36.160-08:00事有輕重之分<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhiEAyORGPq540nCQPoCbnK93NJeKs1TyRcRVLfPg4EgORrYwoOlUMtUCbYtAFTc2tz0BOp_uGT0hHAlTdo7EjAy9-p3LFGJUgHBctwsJ3Zyqu7KadV4mAh9F_pnNUhSoWSNQrFdnqqFfgg/s1600-h/babdy+in+water.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5400099657489216114" style="WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 214px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhiEAyORGPq540nCQPoCbnK93NJeKs1TyRcRVLfPg4EgORrYwoOlUMtUCbYtAFTc2tz0BOp_uGT0hHAlTdo7EjAy9-p3LFGJUgHBctwsJ3Zyqu7KadV4mAh9F_pnNUhSoWSNQrFdnqqFfgg/s320/babdy+in+water.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div></div><div>2009年11月3日,晴</div><div></div><div>人為什么常常會在作出選擇和採取行動前,感到頭痛不已?即使是個小決定,我有時也會搖擺不定。還記得曾修過一堂課叫做:Decision Making;上個星期日又聽到Bhante Aggacita開示中提到的一些要點,頓然有所感慨。想來猶豫與搖擺的出現,都是因為不分輕重,不懂得以priority作出選擇。</div><br /><div>而priority又以自身的價值觀為依歸。我了解自己的價值觀嗎?簡單的問題,也非常難以回答。我不要理性分析后的答案,直覺帶給人的或許是更準確的答案。可惜的是,成年都市人所缺乏的正是這一份直覺、單純,所以便不容易聽到源自內心深處的那股聲音。于是,沉淀,沉淀,再沉淀是很重要的。</div><br /><div></div><br /><div></div><br /><div></div><br /><div></div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-37872359667336461182009-11-02T06:56:00.000-08:002009-11-02T07:18:22.394-08:00雨天随想<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGJHxLKIyYuK_9TIG99CvcK0n16Qeq0gBWdfOPz_NMLc9ZXQ8W5bPaJifJKJ-FdyYBDPz4jzoq1BLEUyXUrdsNTmL0ZaLny4bpUAWjeo75GvViQHi4ovooX9NIP7ebYxz3rmDVxiy-Ej9H/s1600-h/umbrella.jpg"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 250px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGJHxLKIyYuK_9TIG99CvcK0n16Qeq0gBWdfOPz_NMLc9ZXQ8W5bPaJifJKJ-FdyYBDPz4jzoq1BLEUyXUrdsNTmL0ZaLny4bpUAWjeo75GvViQHi4ovooX9NIP7ebYxz3rmDVxiy-Ej9H/s320/umbrella.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399525753043200322" /></a><br /><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#6600CC;"><b>2009年11月2日(星期一),雨</b></span></div><div><br /></div>又是下雨天,早晨下雨有洗涤心情的作用,还好。<div><br /></div><div>下班后碰上雨神就糟了。今天黄昏时分在车龙中塞入近两个小时,几乎可以从吉隆坡去到怡保了。由于没有赶路,心情不至于很焦急,只是有点可惜宝贵的时间白白消耗在这些无聊的等候中。用免持耳机与妈妈通话;妈妈安慰我说:你是在车龙中受困,但是露天摆摊的小贩在雨季里不是更惨吗?摆摊/开档不是,不开也不是,生计所受的影响不是更大吗?说的也是,雨季对我带来的不便想来也不是那么不堪了,况且那也不过是暂时性的,<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color:#FF9900;"><b>雨过就会天晴啦!</b></span></div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-26198623691171253222009-05-18T03:21:00.000-07:002009-05-18T03:26:38.959-07:00夢想忽然復活了<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjA11cFwKXwcneBeFMq8ddGFg0Jf9yVkfONHyynBeYl9tBYmFOZbP6P4JyKrSG7PMYnSFbxfE2jouhS5Ay67PZ5vWBR3O-koYDGNnKyGYv38RVmRyVbIX7kruFHq-ZropImNAyOzG3IvuqX/s1600-h/3484952471_dc71daf2e4.jpeg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5337108338945282354" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 180px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjA11cFwKXwcneBeFMq8ddGFg0Jf9yVkfONHyynBeYl9tBYmFOZbP6P4JyKrSG7PMYnSFbxfE2jouhS5Ay67PZ5vWBR3O-koYDGNnKyGYv38RVmRyVbIX7kruFHq-ZropImNAyOzG3IvuqX/s320/3484952471_dc71daf2e4.jpeg" border="0" /></a><br /><div>“生活还是千篇一律,梦想到哪儿去了?上班难道就只为了争名夺利吗?”30岁以上的上班族或许会对这些问题感到有些熟悉、有些麻木甚至有些沉重。星期六晚观看“死了都要卖”(Sell Out)时,我总觉得“梦想”这主题变得越来越鲜明,片中其他的元素如:烂笑话、Manglish、精彩的翻译、歌舞、拍摄手法全都变成陪衬品而已。</div><br /><div><br />或许,有些观众会觉得这是一部歌舞片,娱乐性不俗,还有生活中的笑料俯身皆拾,有时是令人噗嗤一笑,更多的时候是发出会心一笑…但我在笑声中还是感受到电影有意无意中散发的淡淡哀愁:华校生在英语为主流的工作圈中发展困境、大集团唯利是图、人性的不择手段,华人社会千姿百态…实在很难把它归类为喜剧。</div><br /><div><br />又或许,多才多艺(包办片中所有词曲)且幽默感十足(别错过电影开场的第一幕)的杨导演,只是想把它眼中“可爱”的马来西亚文化,以亲松有趣的方式呈现给观众,是我想得太多、太严肃了。话说回头,片中的中文字幕翻译应记一功,不少英文歌词被翻译得颇具诗意,是续“Puteri Gunung Ledang”之后最佳的一部中文字幕翻译。</div><br /><div><br />整部电影中,有好几幕趣味镜头,相当诱人深思:1. 一名华妇不到诊所看诊,反而老是打电话到医生家里问诊(未免太占人便宜了吧?)2. 医生对女主角说,如果身体没有其他毛病,就只好给她服用维他命C(变相的敛财方式?)3. 女主角询问躺在床上临死的老人对政府有什么看法时,老人的家人一致暗示他不可说。(这一招比梁智强还要高明!)</div><br /><div><br />影片的尾声出乎意料的安排男主角本尊(代表现实)与分身(代表梦想)对决,让观众以传送短讯的方式决定谁应该死去,乃是神来之笔。最终“梦想”虽然被判死亡,却还是成功唤醒了女主角的良知而真情流露。</div><br /><div><br />现实中,杨导演(Yeo Joon Han)大胆采用这么创意的手法拍摄他的第一部电影,并成功sell out到这么多个国家的影展及当地观众;我想,“梦想”是时候复活了!<br /><br /></div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-47960764275141694872008-11-01T21:44:00.000-07:002008-11-01T21:51:31.969-07:00The Ray of Dhamma1st - 12th October 2008<div><br /></div><div>It was really fortunate to attend the Vipassana Meditation Camp for the 2nd time, hope it could be 3rd, 4th, 5th...and many time more.</div><div><br /></div><div>A lot of awakening and realization, so excited to share with family members and others after back from this camp. However, this biggest challenge is: how to maintain the practise/ cultivation for the rest of my life. Physical tiredness is really a hindrance especially my new job is so much far away from Kota Kemuning:( . When they is a will, there is a way; hopefully J.O can be my inspiration and "tauladan" as well.</div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-23868255328060439392008-09-19T09:13:00.001-07:002008-09-19T10:15:30.457-07:00Moonlight Resonance<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_EeXvNKYaW-BsJw6Pas8iqBlhLkpgbYSQ2nNkH5yKbFU6lXEqBL13npgoCv4y4aN7bJ-xRVcgXvS-PHK2SGxHvac8CJfQBPMJAgr8fZIQ7lINtS-fL8vMtYrEH16D3PAVBTbkddVmxqCx/s1600-h/P1080574.JPG"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_EeXvNKYaW-BsJw6Pas8iqBlhLkpgbYSQ2nNkH5yKbFU6lXEqBL13npgoCv4y4aN7bJ-xRVcgXvS-PHK2SGxHvac8CJfQBPMJAgr8fZIQ7lINtS-fL8vMtYrEH16D3PAVBTbkddVmxqCx/s320/P1080574.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5247778171164893938" /></a><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">15 Sept 2008, Sun.</span><br /><div>Meet my 2 mums: my mother in-law (left) and my mother (right, carry Yu Xuan). Both share one commonality - can cook good foods!<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-rZ77_GrsdF7GNC4oEHyIGAKj23b0PI7bjbT691_sGc6xg_XYLyPCAvJxFfYnq2jFRGPHBT6Mu4neXzeKtOKlJLQ5SCK2C3Zkx3aMwrhLnk_hc0iPh5FwTL2XfnbxM776b5ITZktCrncx/s1600-h/P1080577.JPG"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-rZ77_GrsdF7GNC4oEHyIGAKj23b0PI7bjbT691_sGc6xg_XYLyPCAvJxFfYnq2jFRGPHBT6Mu4neXzeKtOKlJLQ5SCK2C3Zkx3aMwrhLnk_hc0iPh5FwTL2XfnbxM776b5ITZktCrncx/s320/P1080577.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5247777714439186114" /></a><div>J.O perform his "standard" smiling face, both of us have a rounder face as compared to few years ago.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQeuxPZbAaASyC_abQ5t2HcqcoxKBzoXHYdCu7GiPKg8Hqg9vOsbu421jR1TZVSzNLJ7tG4Zt3nVwh-F7bV6SRi-HrVE6tzbxm2IxHRJS1B1QduUtAvEo41vthJiVItuXFwxpheZOvrlGR/s1600-h/P1080580.JPG"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQeuxPZbAaASyC_abQ5t2HcqcoxKBzoXHYdCu7GiPKg8Hqg9vOsbu421jR1TZVSzNLJ7tG4Zt3nVwh-F7bV6SRi-HrVE6tzbxm2IxHRJS1B1QduUtAvEo41vthJiVItuXFwxpheZOvrlGR/s320/P1080580.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5247777720965051362" /></a></div><div>It was a raining nite, thus cancelled our Tanglung parade and 'hang' up the tanglungs at the home yard (sheltered). It glown like the beautiful flowers at night:)<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEht3bKQhbP7egCqsoLgjV3ZCagkVhQbc8pZC9vJRAGH9_InwtOMbbJ2qSp8OhiNeG_LrhOH3Lev4yImeaOoKKYLMK-uQPGKJv0spiROLyiLhnTtLmogAOi2Ta1qt0n2baei5-1QExyRLrda/s1600-h/P1080595.JPG"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEht3bKQhbP7egCqsoLgjV3ZCagkVhQbc8pZC9vJRAGH9_InwtOMbbJ2qSp8OhiNeG_LrhOH3Lev4yImeaOoKKYLMK-uQPGKJv0spiROLyiLhnTtLmogAOi2Ta1qt0n2baei5-1QExyRLrda/s320/P1080595.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5247777726324195122" /></a><br />Me, busy serving different types of Chinese tea besides the variety of moon cake. The only 'food' (should be dessert) I cooked was the pinky-jelly with assorted apples. </div></div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-30133599459827122822008-09-19T09:13:00.000-07:002008-09-19T10:16:19.270-07:00My Lovely Workstation<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgrN1Us2HK8UPYcvta3i33locpiLmP7BKaQT0MEVGoY5wmUJjxplfoKbrjI0opa2ARMLJONXfZ4nyHcWzmIIuFAbWasU8hyphenhyphennrSQMO7eoZfsHgEXBkoqd6BxywVByqego4h1BhwmEVAZzghf/s1600-h/P1080553.JPG"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgrN1Us2HK8UPYcvta3i33locpiLmP7BKaQT0MEVGoY5wmUJjxplfoKbrjI0opa2ARMLJONXfZ4nyHcWzmIIuFAbWasU8hyphenhyphennrSQMO7eoZfsHgEXBkoqd6BxywVByqego4h1BhwmEVAZzghf/s320/P1080553.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5247772126534800018" /></a><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-weight: bold;">13 Sept 2008, Sat.</span></div><div>Pictures taken outside IKEA, Damansara Mutiara. Long time didn't visit to IKEA as it is so far from my house. Courts Building is located opposite to IKEA, but their traffic was terribly low that day (or all the while?). These areas really like a concrete jungle.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZLaV93PVtg2SVs95xTL8XyVEKW31I0GEjEK7_vrRWzM1sDoRtKJDUFMPRRR9AQur6SzSyf8oH44vcElLfS6uuJ_SX8XuL-OGdsNioTD6bQG-1pENU1J9MUiC-E_pjZHqqxnyHfPVTDk0C/s1600-h/P1080563.JPG"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZLaV93PVtg2SVs95xTL8XyVEKW31I0GEjEK7_vrRWzM1sDoRtKJDUFMPRRR9AQur6SzSyf8oH44vcElLfS6uuJ_SX8XuL-OGdsNioTD6bQG-1pENU1J9MUiC-E_pjZHqqxnyHfPVTDk0C/s320/P1080563.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5247772126761331842" /></a></div><div>From the idea as petite as "wild flower", IKEA is able to promote the Swedish culture so subtlely, not to say the Swedish cookies sold next to the coffee counter. Malaysian's enterprise should learn from them.</div><div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6fphvDwsTApOmlqxnEa49TdHJeVckH_fH0Kr72qNMYqoJc5K2pvkU7RJ4rSQseLI15SDjv8YeEEA7w-X3YqYbsgAfWPI4026rfAvHJVNW-g9bPj7S4eeExsNto___V6Zh-76AvUQP7iPM/s1600-h/P1080596.JPG"><img style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg6fphvDwsTApOmlqxnEa49TdHJeVckH_fH0Kr72qNMYqoJc5K2pvkU7RJ4rSQseLI15SDjv8YeEEA7w-X3YqYbsgAfWPI4026rfAvHJVNW-g9bPj7S4eeExsNto___V6Zh-76AvUQP7iPM/s320/P1080596.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5247772130494076114" /></a><br />See, this is my new workstation, not bad huh, a product from IKEA. It is not easy to find a workstation for 2 (normally, cater for 1 person only). Thanks to IKEA for offering this good piece of furniture. The length of the table top can fit into my Avanza aptly, if the length is extra an inch, we will need to get their delivery service.</div>Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4151743834920151181.post-13961509427406656182008-09-06T22:47:00.001-07:002008-09-08T23:12:19.297-07:00INCOVAR D&D 2008<img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5243899140409614562" style="CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0uTGlaT-SqzzDj-n_kWIDS3y4XnBn42Kvnz_9wR-aKGxiJ5hoxTB_6Hu5KnRKjDY6FdgQr9Z4ZALr5ji1gnXu9R9Y-vHmXS7Th1-I-fTPZwrhCcFS81RD3_gl_vTSccSGQbHQ7PcgJbR4/s320/P1080551.JPG" border="0" /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"></span><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">7 September 2008 (Sun.)</span><br /><br />amigos para siempre = friends for life, that is the title for 1st INCOVAR Dinner and Dance, which held at Holiday Villa, Subang Jaya, 6 September.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgiH3gNxKG5PtG2b0bVyd_63LTxLyFiCN1-a1BEf0Psl5E-j2IYMAxcFYUHa8-W-LycGUaWj2ZxXUn6j9ssaBfwc6QkLMpuZG13C-jMrBHVxnykvlfJYS17abwEA5qAJGBS55tNcpXDqqb4/s1600-h/P1080537.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5243152404125322338" style="CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgiH3gNxKG5PtG2b0bVyd_63LTxLyFiCN1-a1BEf0Psl5E-j2IYMAxcFYUHa8-W-LycGUaWj2ZxXUn6j9ssaBfwc6QkLMpuZG13C-jMrBHVxnykvlfJYS17abwEA5qAJGBS55tNcpXDqqb4/s320/P1080537.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><br />Now I affirmed that "white" is the favourite color of Sister Kah Yein. Brother Chin Kah looks much more younger without his spec.<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjzmhFy6FipGqk3K7MoFDYvHX9YosdhVWiD7MzjkrZAN2puAVpILMDUrl38TAZIjnzxEAlMo3bSrxTb7DfFU963b9qc_12VYZpnYTksgGukaaYD3dXTggvvZCyP749i5pUwU7NU09HrG0L/s1600-h/P1080539.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5243152407960824642" style="CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjzmhFy6FipGqk3K7MoFDYvHX9YosdhVWiD7MzjkrZAN2puAVpILMDUrl38TAZIjnzxEAlMo3bSrxTb7DfFU963b9qc_12VYZpnYTksgGukaaYD3dXTggvvZCyP749i5pUwU7NU09HrG0L/s320/P1080539.JPG" border="0" /></a><br />Long time no see: from right: Mabel, Anne and Wee Boon ( still as slim as 9 years ago!).<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgS1aLav-nJBZEToK5Z1xiG1m8ADjVCzpYwKGcD6BjOvRM2HESDRo3jkXd4mqGvV2QU3kHutr8UKpZP-WnOcNhpaP_zLyPlLWsWTQHoN4sAUFm1Y8LTjYQuVSqCqme4TGd9y1IgwGR9qcE2/s1600-h/P1080541.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5243152411022239314" style="CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgS1aLav-nJBZEToK5Z1xiG1m8ADjVCzpYwKGcD6BjOvRM2HESDRo3jkXd4mqGvV2QU3kHutr8UKpZP-WnOcNhpaP_zLyPlLWsWTQHoN4sAUFm1Y8LTjYQuVSqCqme4TGd9y1IgwGR9qcE2/s320/P1080541.JPG" border="0" /></a><br />Introduce the sexy babe of the night: Wendy Goh (right)<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMB2TiE963e8qvvIOz5gw7V43sw7zxgnAPIFQptXCoMC5SAIpkqZxIxmbMDJb5dm1c2h_5isBEpP4iPMyEsn8edyAUl_OTyPr1acNbLW5Fi5V8tLKxilZOPfStMaFupGaiDC5tSlKE15x7/s1600-h/P1080545.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5243152410094622066" style="CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMB2TiE963e8qvvIOz5gw7V43sw7zxgnAPIFQptXCoMC5SAIpkqZxIxmbMDJb5dm1c2h_5isBEpP4iPMyEsn8edyAUl_OTyPr1acNbLW5Fi5V8tLKxilZOPfStMaFupGaiDC5tSlKE15x7/s320/P1080545.JPG" border="0" /></a><br />A group photo with Datuk Dr, Victor Wee (strip shirt) - The Father of Independence for INCOVAR.Little Yonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08511415123666207931noreply@blogger.com1